IN
person, Gretchen Ho's demeanor is not far from what you see on the tube When
she's competing on the volleyball court. The 23-year-old ex-Atenean star spiker
walks in and settles down in our studio with the same sense of focus she Brings
to every game. And the energy she exudes GIVES you the impression that she has
come PREPARED for the task and hand - even if it's as mundane as mechanically
simulated spikes performing for the camera.
Unsurprisingly,
Ho's sheer power slams the volleyball to the ground, PRODUCING a thunderous
echo that resounds in every corner of the room. It does not take much to get
her into the zone.
But
while her confidence is intimidating Initially, her disarming smile and boyish
charms draw you in and make you realized she is not like most women you know.
Growing up with three brothers has made her one of the boys, and she admits
that being raised in sort of environment has molded the gung-ho,
multidimensional achiever in her. "[So back in school], I was really
concerned about competing with my batch mates more than anything - in sports
[and] academics," Ho recalls.
A
self-confessed late bloomer, the Petron squad standout in the Philippine Super
League women's volleyball invitational was Nonchalant When it came to guys
befriending her in her teen years; staying committed to her beloved sport was
her top priority. It was only in her final When year in college she really gave
dating a go. The long wait paid off - since then, she's been dating actor-host
Robi Domingo, and they've gone public about it since.
There
has be a lot of things vying for attention nowadays Ho's (she's also one of the
hosts of Gameday Weekend , airs on Balls are priority channel every Saturday
and Sunday at 5:30 PM), but her focus never wavers. She remains driven to
succeed - in sports, in her hosting career, and also in her relationship. And
now that she's officially off the market, the beaming volleybelle is serving
you with her version of dating dos and don'ts that she has Learned from
experience.
Still,
Ho does not discount the importance of spending quality time together,
especially since she and her boyfriend have hectic schedules. "
Challenging the busy, but sometimes,
also helps Yung effort [to be with each other], "she says. " If
Because someone you really love you, the way you make even busy you are .
"While you do not have to check on your girlfriend all the time, you also
have to show her you remember her, or else you'll come off as Either an
insecure boy or a player. Like most women, Ho dislikes a man who comes off as
needy. She believes that not only shows a clinginess Lack of self-value - she
also feels that two people in a relationship need time away from each other In
order to Flourish. "I need space to grow [as a person]. After you've given
me that space, let's meet and let's share what we have and help each other
grow, "she explains.
Mutual
Respect
There's
nothing like exercising good ol 'proper manners to stand out, and women are
quick to pick up on this even at the very first meeting. "First of all, I
notice if a guy is a gentleman - if he closes the door [for me] and treats me
well, "Ho shares.
As
your relationship comes along, your sense of respect for each other Should
never dissipate. For Ho, When a guy is consistently courteous not only to His
family and close friends but also to people not Directly related to him, it speaks
volumes about His sincerity in the relationship. If you treat acquaintances and
even strangers with Decency and courtesy, she sees it as a sign that you're
bound to be more careful with the feelings of the ones you care about.
No
Guts, No Glory
As
with anything in life, keep in mind that the former is also a gamble. Ho can
attest that the chances of getting rejected or hurt will always be there.
Still, usually something positive comes out of taking the plunge.
"Take
a risk, Because [Otherwise] you'll never know if the person will turn out to be
good for you," she encourages. "We have our ideal partners have in
mind, but the beauty of a relationship is discovering the reality of the person
in front of you, seeing the good and the bad, and allowing them to be
complemented by your imperfections. "
Ready
for Action
A
study published in the Journal of
Experimental Psychology : General reported that red hues tend to make men
appear more attractive to women. Of course, shifting her attention from your
cherry-red shirt to your vibrant personality is all up to how you handle the
night's proceedings.
Break
the Wall
Getting
acquainted with each other's rules of intimacy Takes time says sex and
relationship counselor, Tracey Cox, author of
Sextasy . "But [Eventually], you think you're supposed to know what
you're doing - and most men are afraid of looking stupid." Talking about
your fantasies will not hurt.
BE
ON HER TEAM
Do
not be too quick to judge based on stereotypes jocks. Volleyball star and TV
host Gretchen Ho shares the many merits of dating an athlete
1. They stay in sync. You can expect athletes to apply the
practices they've Learned from THEIR sport into the different Aspects of THEIR
life, including romance. This is why she thinks having an athlete for a partner
can be advantageous: The importance of teamwork and determination (two crucial
relationship pillars) have been instilled in them early on. "Sports-minded
people are driven, and They know how to work with [other] people," she
says.
2.
They get up and do. They're not just
driven to succeed - most athletes are welcome any challenge and "game for
anything," as Ho puts it. So if you're the adventurous type, having an
athlete for a companion the experiences will make a lot more free-flowing.
Whether it's trying out kite surfing, eating exotic food, or visiting
undiscovered destinations, you can count on a sportswoman to never back down
from anything.
3.
You can stay healthy together. Formerly
an athlete ups your standards When it comes to eating right and working out.
"We care about our physical well-being, so attracted to me if [a guy also]
Takes Care of His body, "admits ho. Formerly an athlete will also give you
more incentive to cut down on vices and stay on the health and fitness
track.
